All Successful Relationships Need Work: And Here’s Why

All Successful Relationships Need Work: And Here’s Why In relationships, the problem is not with the other, but with oneself.  -Sri Bhagavan. How many of you reading this, are single, but are desperate to be in a relationship? And how many of you are in a relationship, but are desperate to be single? Sound familiar? […]

What Is A Spiritual Person?

What Is A Spiritual Person? To be spiritual is to be happy—Spirituality is the science of happiness. – Sri Bhagavan What Does It Mean To Be Spiritual?   This is a question I’ve thought a lot about over the years—and perhaps some of you have your own views about what being spiritual means for you. […]

Call of The Inner Voice

Call of The Inner Voice When we hear our inner voice and follow it, we can walk our own path – Ilche Lee With the launch of my new and updated website, I thought it poignant to re-publish this post, which speaks very much about the journey I have had with connecting with my inner […]

Call of The Inner Voice Continued

Call of The Inner Voice Continued Don’t shush your inner voice, it’s who you really are. -Unknown My four years at Polytechnic were amazing! It was a whirl of parties, boyfriends, LOTS of fun and of course some studying. In my third year after working about 5 months in the UK on a work placement, […]

How I Made Peace with Being Childless

How I Made Peace with Being Childless Letting go does not mean giving up but rather accepting that there are some things that  cannot be. —NotSoMommy.com Childlessness is something I only associated with sad spinsters. I never ever imagined that childlessness would be my destiny. I remember thinking as a young girl that I would […]

This Decade, I Transformed My Life And Found Happiness

This Decade I Transformed My Life And Found Happiness When you confront yourself you will know who you are -Sri Bhagavan. Life looks very different today than it did in 2010. Ten years ago, I was entering my fifth year of living in Shanghai, I owned a textile business, I had started a new relationship […]

Resolving Our Conflicts Through Separation—Is This The Answer?

Resolving Our Conflicts Through Separation—Is This The Answer? The greatest illusion of this world is the illusion of separation -Guru Pathik In my last post, I touched briefly on the subject of separation, but I spoke more about theseparation we as humans feel with ourselves, our loved ones, with nature and with theworld at large. […]

Death or Transition continued

Death Or Transition Continued I don’t fear death because I know it’s a transition. Our souls can’t be destroyed. I know we are going to live another life. -Uri Geller Breaking the news of my dad’s death to my staff wasn’t easy. And even though my dad was with me in the office, I still […]

Death or Transition

Death or Transition Choose to see death as simply removing a garment or moving from one room to another…it’s merely a transition. -Wayne Dyer I mentioned in my last post “I start a business continued” that in 2009 my father died…I’m going to elaborate a little more on that experience here.   In May 2009 […]

Is Happiness A Choice?

Is Happiness A Choice? Happy people build their inner world; unhappy people blame their outer world -Buddha Is happiness a choice? It’s an interesting question isn’t it? What do you think? Is your happiness a choice? Can you choose whether or not to be happy, or is happiness something we all have a right to […]